Showing posts with label Pregnancy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Pregnancy. Show all posts

Tuesday, 6 August 2013

Mistake



In my last Blog I spoke about how I believed that woman were superior in every way to men and I will continue to believe this but due to recent events that have been playing out in the paper last week I decided to bring this topic up. If you have been following the news you would have heard that a woman claims that she is pregnant with Simon Cowell’s child. Now I am not going to go into detail about this news article but instead I am going to talk about taking reasonability when you do decided to sleep with someone because all I seem to hear or read about these days is the number of people that are having celebrity’s child or just having children in general.

My question to everyone is do people not realise that having sex makes babies or are you just to dude to believe that because for your information it does and that using some form of birth control might spot this from happening.

It is the reasonability of both the male and female to us some form of birth control it can’t be so hard of a man to carry a around a few condoms in his pockets and the woman to have some form of birth control in place before hand and if you are not one hundred percent sure about the effectiveness of your birth control you can always carry a few condoms in your hand bag. As they say not every form of contraception is one hundred percent effective so if both are using contraception then the odds of you having an accident will be reduced significantly.

Now the one story that did piss me off the most was the woman that was demanding from the government a bigger house for her family because she went on to have ten children, yes I am aware that she did say that she was highly fertile but still doesn’t excess the fact that she could have done something to stop herself from having more kids. Here’s an idea have you through about using some other form of contraception or even asking your partner to wear a fucking condom because somehow I don’t think you did.

It’s bad enough at the minute that our population is showing no signs of slowing down and because of this fact alone I really feel sorry for this generation and the following generation when it comes to finding a place to live. I know that in England there isn’t enough housing to support the current population but by the time we are able to the population would have increased again.

To me the long term solution would be to place a cap on families so that they can only have one child and make sure that there is a law in place to support this. In the medium term parents need to at the age of thirteen or earlier to start talking to their children about sex and to put in place some form of contraception while they are living under your roof because to me as long as they are living under your roof they are still your responsibility. For the short term I would suggest that the dumb males that don’t use a condom go out and buy some for your next sexual encounter and the dumb women that giving the rest of the women a bad name go out and get yourself on the pill, have an injection or have a Nexplanon implant placed in your arm and if you are still not sure then go out and get yourself a box of condoms that can be placed at the bottom of your handbag just encase you meet and stupid male that hasn’t got any on him.

The last thing that I will say is that if you are rice and famous and don’t want to have a court case that involves you trying to find out if the child is yours, then go and have a vasectomy done, that way you can fool about as much as you want and not have to worry about getting anyone pregnant.

Until Next Time

Friday, 16 November 2012

If you want it, earn it.



Now I should point out that this topic at times could be classed as a rant and that everything here is of my own opinion, you might not like it so take this as your warning.

As you might have noticed by the title of today’s topic I am going to be talking about something that has annoyed the hell out of me and my friend for quite some time and what I believe we should do to solve this problem. When me or my friend happen to go out some evening we end up talking about the way the world is run and why people believe that they can do what they want when they want without thinking about the bigger picture or consequences of their actions.  

I believe that the reason this gets on our nerves so much is the fact that we work our ass off to make a life for ourselves without taking anything from the government, yet others tend to think that they have the right to do nothing and get everything from the government and one way they believe that they can do this is by getting pregnant.

Men and woman a like believe that if the woman gets pregnant they can get everything given to them on a sliver platter. For me and my friend we both know quite few people that have done this and to a point it really annoys us, why should someone that has no interest in going to work and making a life for themselves have the right to fall pregnant and then get everything they want from the government.

Both of us have agreed that this has to stop because if allow this to continue we can think of at least two outcomes that we both don’t like the sound off. One outcome would be that we will end up creating another generation of children that believe by doing nothing get them everything they want and second the population of the planet will still increase to a point where it will be almost impossible for us to sustain it. A good example that I could us is that if you look at our country for a moment you can see that we struggle to build enough homes in are local areas.

I have decided to things one step fever and have come to the decision that the best way to solve these problems is to change the way in which the benefits are hand out of those with children. My first solution would be to introduce an agreement in which it states that if you both wish to start a family you will need to sign this said document and have prove that the two of you own or private rent a property with both your names on the agreement or ownership papers and that you have been living together for more than two years. The document should also state that if one of you does decided to end the relationship the one that asked for the relationship to end should pay the amount that you were original given in benefits with an addition 50% on top for child support.

This document may sound a lot but in the short fall it makes sure that you are both ready as a couple to start a family and second can prove that you have the ability to look after yourself and the new additions to the family.

Now the only exception that the agreement will allow is if you do fall pregnant and haven’t sign the agreement but have been living together for more than a year you will have up to six weeks from the date you find out which must be less than eight weeks into the pregnancy to sign the agreement agreeing that you both want to have this baby. I should stress the fact that if you do not sign the paper or only one of you agrees to the birth of the child you will not receive any benefits and will be ask to have an abortion. If this is your first then the NHS will do it for free but any other ones you will have to pay a percent of the cost.

You are probably wondering why am I being so hash on the whole subject, It’s very simple we have the ability and services available within the NHS already to prevent pregnancy which are free or come at a small cost for both men and women, so us them.

Now if you are unable to prove any of the above points and you do happen to still fall pregnant then you will not be entailed to anything so those of you that still live at home and are pregnant because you didn’t use family planning services then you will be ask if your parents want to look after the baby and if they don’t agree then you will have to have the baby terminated.

Yes a lot of what I have said is hash but something needs to be done with the current state of benefits and the increasing of the population because to me it’s getting out of hand. Those that are angry at what I have said and believe that I come from a rich family, I would like to make something very clear, I have had to work for everything that I own and there were times while I was growing up that my family struggled to get by each month and I have had to help in any way that I could and I didn’t mind it.

Hand outs from the government are there for when you are in trouble and have no where else to go and this is how things should be not how it is at the moment where every Tom, Dick and Larry get everything for free. If you want a family show that you can support and are ready for the reasonably that comes with it, don’t just pass it on to the government or NHS for a mistake that you could have prevented.  

Until next time.