We all have one

Here’s a question for everyone, do you have a friend or know someone that goes out of their way to annoy everyone around them, by telling them all the same story or a problem that they may have.

If you do, then you already know how I feel when I end up in this situation and if not then I will try and explain it to you, once you have heard said story more than twice you tend to at first just switch off and say a few words here and there when needed in a hopes that they well hurry up. Then if you hear the story a few more times you started to get annoyed, begin to feel your blood boil, you just completely switch off  and don’t say anything in a hopes that they will just shut up.

Now you might be asking yourself why have, I chosen this topic for this week blog and the reason is because I have now reached a point in my life where I can’t take anymore of this crap and I hope to make others aware that there are two groups that make up this people. The first group are the ones that tell the same story each and every time and the second group are those that have a problem with another person and want to tell everyone why they have a problem with said person.

Now the first group that I will be looking at are the ones that spend all their time talking about the same stories over and over again, I just can’t understand why someone would want to spend all that time retelling the same story. I understand the fact that when you meet someone new and they make a comment about something that relates to said story you feel like telling them about it but have you ever through about not telling them straight away. I should also point out that these stories can be funny and make up who you are but at the same time it can get a bit boring for those that already heard it.

The last group are those that talk about those they have a problem with.  I know that we are all victims of this one because I know that I too have done it in the past but I know that only my closest friends have been told about it and if they ask about said person I will talk about it but otherwise I try not to. The problem I have are the ones that like to update you every minute something new comes to light and these are the ones that annoy me the most.

If you happen to be one of the ones that do have a problem with someone else then take a bit of my advice, If you do have a problem with someone else then go over to them and talk to them about the problem and if you don’t want to do then just ignore them.

I understand that we all have stories that we all want to tell others about, we all have disagreements with others and that it is easier to talk to your closes friends about it but ask yourself one question, do they want to hear about it each time you meet them? We all have to get things off our chest but find out first which friends what to hear about it first before you tell everyone.

Until Next Time