When
writing blog’s I try to stay away from any rants that I want to go on because I
believe that some of my message or help might get lost with the rant but I believe
that for once I may have to rant about this topic, the topic in question is
S&B day and for those unaware of what this is I will take some time to talk
about it and explain what I have wrong with it.
S&B
day is widely known as Steak and Blowjob Day and this is where women give there
other halves a Steak for Dinner and a Blowjob for dessert. This day was created
by a fucking idiot called Tom Birdsey who used all forms of multimedia to get
his message out that men should be given something back for all their hard work
for Valentine’s Day (I should make the point that if you felling like that then
why are you dating in the first place?).
If
you haven’t already guessed I dislike everything about this on multiply levels
and below are my reason and explanations.
- It demeans women
The
reason that I say this is because of the following quote that can be found on
the Facebook page “Men work extremely hard to satisfy their lovers on Valentine’s
Day”. To me this implies that woman should pay men back for everything they
have done for them on Valentine’s Day. To me this is a narrow-minded and doesn’t
take into account the bigger picture which leads me into the following point.
- You shouldn’t be showing your love for one another once a year
As
I have said multiply times when I have spoken about relationships in past blog,
I have said that if you are with someone then you should be showing one another
that you love one another even if that is by saying that you love them, complementing
them in the way they look and what you like about them, doing something that
the other is not expecting or just by sleeping with one another. And this is where
I ask the question to Tom Birdsey (the idiot that created the whole thing), have
you ever taken the time to look at your past relationships and asked yourself
have you done what I have outlines above or has your partner done something similar
to you?
- Have you taken a moment to see what your other half did for you on Valentine’s Day?
Now
a lot of place will make out that Valentine’s Day is all about the man doing
something for the woman but if you look around and listen to people around you,
you will find out that it is not that black and white anymore. Yes men do treat
their other half to something on Valentine’s Day but at the same time woman
have also done something for the men in their life too. Examples of this have
been women going out buying new outfit and lingerie for that evening to spice thing
up or getting them something in return. For me I believe that Tom Birdsey didn’t
take any of these on board when creating his Steak and a Blowjob Day because to
me I get the impression that he believes that women should be giving this to
him anyway.
- And there is another way to show your love other than this day.
And
lastly we come to what I would call the crown jewel of this all, if Tom Birdsey
had done any research before he went to the media and asked for the world to
follow him in this fucking demeaning day he would have seen that there are
countries around the world that follow up Valentine’s Day with another day which
is twenty eight days later on March the 14th. A good example of this
is over in Japan where they have White Day, where Men that have received gift
on Valentine’s Day return the favour on March 14th.
If
you haven’t already guessed it, I believe that this whole Steak and a Blowjob
Day should be forgotten about completely and my reasons have been listed above
but at the same time those that agree with this day need to really look at what
they are doing in their relationship to beginning with. If you really want to
do something after Valentine’s Day then all I can suggest is that you follow up
that day with something that you have planned for both of you or even go as far
as doing everything that I have listed in point 2.
